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Comment on For the Love of Ray J by ABallou

ABallou — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 21:46:51 +0000

It’s enlightening to be able to look back at something you wrote and or read in the past. Thanks again for creating a platform for this type of outlet.

Three years later, I’ve learned that I’m not such a Phenomenal Mother (at least my teenage daughter doesn’t think so). What was I thinking… lol I also didn’t have anything to do with my ‘Baby’s Daddy’ maturing and developing into the Man/Father God created him to be, this is something he had to learn and do on his own.
In these past 3 years God has humbled me (to say the least), and now the tables have turned. I’m still the disciplinarian to our daughter and I still spend more Mother/Daughter time with her than he does Father/Daughter time, but rightfully so. I love the Woman-to-Future-Woman talks with my Baby Girl, & he’ll naturally spend more time with our son (when/if God blesses us with one ). Now as Mrs. Ballou, I have more time to focus on being a good Mother while Mr. Ballou is the primary support to our Family. I never comprehended the joy and contentment a Man receives from the act of providing for his family, until now. It’s beautiful.
My Husband & I broke up for eight years prior to getting married. I would say a large part of why we’re together today (in addition to our agape and romantic love for one another) is because we both have matured over the years but also we’re hopeful and we both are looking forward to & working toward God’s promises for our lives.

To me, being Strong has nothing to do with being Outspoken. As everyone has sort of mentioned in the previous comments – It seems as though being Strong has less to do with Strength and more to do with Endurance. S/he is determined to do what’s right and this person never gives up hope…

Comment on WHO IS JERMAINE by Ruba

Ruba — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 20:15:49 +0000

I felt to share a quote to ring in the new year and say that I pray you’re well in health and business…

“Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinion drowned your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”- Steven Jobs

Comment on My girlfriend left me by Ashley L Henry

Ashley L Henry — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 21:19:09 +0000

Love this.

Comment on How to rekindle the flame- fake it! by Raquel Porter

Raquel Porter — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 05:11:45 +0000

I want a man to take me to ecstasy!!

Comment on Sex on the first date by Raquel Porter

Raquel Porter — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 04:55:48 +0000

I was always hesitant of having sex on the first date, however, I have gotten close but it wasn’t with the right person, there was no real connection between us. I also think that over time when you are in a relationship and you really fall in love, intimacy will definitely follow, I think that’s when it becomes special, more so if you know you want to marry that person.

Comment on Modern-day Concubine and the fall of the Roman empire by Dante Fisher

Dante Fisher — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 05:54:53 +0000

This was interesting being that everyone nowadays would settle for the quick pleasure instead of being patient for the right one. This a society of now, everybody wants it easy and now instead of putting in the work. I feel when you take the quick route nothing will last, but when your patient, letting things grow you will see a better outcome and less divorces. People take the little things for granted, when the little things maybe the secret ingredient for a lifetime lasting relationship and happy marriage. If you can get it that easy its not worth having. Some people have very few morals or if any at all.

Comment on Modern-day Concubine and the fall of the Roman empire by Wendy Langner

Wendy Langner — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 06:36:07 +0000

Modern day concubines is a interesting term. I personally dont understand why woman choose to live this lifestyle. I am all for the independent woman and knowing her self worth but are we taking this new attitude a little too far? Everytime a woman sleeps with a different man I do believe she loses a part of herself even if it is in the simplest way. So if you are a woman that sleeps with man after man because you are so called independent and dont need a man that tells me what your self worth is and its not worth much..self reflection is what you really need. I dont see how a woman can feel comfortable dealing with a man that chooses to see and sleep with multiple woman. We are creating these men who call themselves “Players”. Now I’m not speaking of all woman here I personally know of woman who just dont deal with men period and just focus on their life..now those are true independent woman. Some people speak of sexual freedom..well if opening your legs is viewed as a freedom to you…thats sad. Some speak of single woman starting familys..well I think that is selfish because in most cases a mother and father is needed to raise a succesful child with true values and morals. Man and woman create a unity and a sense of balance. I have brought up this point to many people…prostitutes get payed for having sex…promiscuous woman dont get paid for having sex..I actually have more respect for the prostitutes..at least they know they are worth at least something..just a thought LOL

Comment on Money Power Respect – Gold Oil Architecture by J Harris

J Harris — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 05:53:15 +0000

The difference between enslaved people and NSLVE people is that the President determines enslaved people through policy. NSLVE’d people are mentally enslaved by their own doing. Even if a policy may have placed them on a particular course. The corrective course of action must come from every house, not the Whitehouse.

Comment on Modern-day Concubine and the fall of the Roman empire by J Harris

J Harris — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 05:44:55 +0000

Regardless of culture, self-indulgence and harmony are always polar opposites. Self-indulgence will always lead to destruction, harmony will never lead to destruction, unless self-indulgence interferers. You can’t live alone, thus how you treat others has an effect that supersedes culture. Empires collapse regardless of culture. The only culture I criticized is this one, but if children don’t know who or where daddy is, that impacts all cultures negatively.

Comment on Modern-day Concubine and the fall of the Roman empire by J Harris

J Harris — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 05:31:00 +0000

The leaders of a conquest are of a different mentality of the general population of a State. After conquest, the inhabitants are a mix of indigenous and migrant peoples. In order to calm the population there requires a moral or religious ideological infiltration. Hence the hypocrisy, yet and still as the 99% fades to the level of the conquering class, anarchy grows.