Mutual, Deserving & Ready Love
Quote of the week
It is easy to love. It is easy to find someone to love you. It is hard to find someone you love, who loves you. Mutual love is possible, but sometimes it feels impossible to find mutual, deserving and ready love.
Don’t forget the simple things
“Mom, have you ever noticed how happy Dad gets whenever you come home. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been gone, 2 hours or 2 days. There’s just a nicer pitch to his voice. The hug he gives you is always like he hadn’t seen you in weeks.” Surprised by her words, I took a quick glance in the mirror and by the looks of the wrinkles and slightly noticeable gray hair I realized I wasn’t the most stunning item out there. But the feeling of his true and raw love makes me feel like a diamond.
Wifeejones
Fight her hangover
After a night on the town partying, set your alarm to 5am, to bring her 2 advil and a big glass of water.
Remember the simple things, take care of her in ways unseen.
Tender Neck-a-wake
Every single morning. Simple but very effective in making sure she remains in love.
If you don’t prove that you love her, how will she know?
Rose & Love letter
Have her stay with you not only out of love for you, but due to your love for her. You may have written a love letter or two back in the day. Maybe to her a few years ago. Maybe you never were that guy. But growth is represented through change. The most important love is the one you are in right now, not the ones from the past or future. Don’t take today for granted, express your feelings. If your feelings are fading, that may be due to you not expressing them. Controlling your feelings is the expression of feelings. Know that not only does emotions create action, but action also create emotion. Don’t let them leave you, or she may leave you. The more needs you fill, the less room for Mr. Smooth at work.
Never forget the simple things
uoy evol I
Ask her if she trust you, blind fold her, take her blouse off, lay her on her stomach… paint a beautiful mural on her back that reads 
“uoy evol I”
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Remember the simple things
Wash her feet
Don’t forget the simple things
Before she gets home from a hard day of work, fill a large bowl with warm fragrant soapy water. Take a towel and some scented lotion, lay them all at the foot of a relaxing chair in a candlelit room. Don’t forget soft music and the strawberries within her reach.
Romance October
Everyday this month I will share a few romance tips that are proven effective. Not Earth shattering, yet very important reminders.
Love intentionally, love intently
Secrets to men being faithful Part II
As individuals we are first and foremost accountable to ourselves for ourselves. This is instinctually our nature. We are born selfish and self serving. Try to take a toy from a three year old and he’ll shout “mine!”. We pick up on clues from our environment regarding the necessity to share and give out of the kindness of our hearts. 
It often is falsely assumed that relationships mean that selfishness is placed aside. Oh contraire, it often means that we must put forth greater effort in not getting caught. Yet the actual denouncing of one’s selfishness for the greater good of the health of the relationship, is a sign of maturity and a strong indicator of success.
Now how do we get there? Read more
