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August 8, 2010

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Dating don’ts

dead-dateWhile  on a date I hate it when…..

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  1. RK
    Sep 9 2009

    I absolutely hate women who don’t know what they want to do or eat, but they are quick to say what they don’t want. So everything I’d suggest, she’d respond, “No, I don’t like that”… I’m like “Check please!”

  2. AV
    Sep 9 2009

    Man,I hate it when…
    1. A woman acts like a lady and takes you through a pile of bull ish then gives it up the first night. If you a hoe, be a hoe. Don’t take a nigga through this bull if you handin yo shit out on day one anyway.

    2. During relations, Women that let you sample the cookies in the oven then ask “do you got something to put on that”.

    3. The I don’t care, nah not that game. I ask my wife “baby, what you want for dinner?” She says “I don’t care” I suggest something and she say “nah not that”, then woman you do care.

  3. Ms.PP
    Sep 9 2009

    I hate it when i argue with my boyfriend and he keeps mumbling to his self after the arguement is finished.

  4. PC
    Sep 9 2009

    I can’t stand when my dude and I go out to a restaurant and he either picks up half my tip or under tip the waitress. This boils me from deep within! Whoever buys dinner, the other typically leaves gratuity…but when its his turn, he leaves $10 on a $115 bill in which most are drinks! Therefore the woman had to work extra hard going back and forth to the bar. I Hate this behavior with a passion! If we wasn’t so deep in, this would be a deal breaker!

  5. MsPhoenix
    Sep 9 2009

    It REALLY irritates me when a man selects a great restaurant, looks and smells great, has wonderfully engaging and stimulating conversation, but when the food finally comes, he chews like a horse or even worse, chews with his mouth open and/or talks with food in his mouth or cleans his nose on the napkin! This is an EXTREME turnoff and is completely unacceptable!!! A sure-fire date killer….

  6. Qui
    Sep 9 2009

    I’m not sure if it is a date killer but i dont like when men try to hold my hand on the first date or when they refer to me as “darling”, “love”, or “sweetie”. That reminds me of my father.

  7. LJ
    Sep 10 2009

    I hate it when a man picks me up for a date and drives like a bat out of hell and then has drinks when we get to the restaurant and wants me to get back in the car with him. He scared the hell out of me sober I can only imagine what the experience will be like intoxicated. I’ve had to call for a ride home on several occasions due to this type of crazy behaviour.

  8. SongbirdLA
    Sep 10 2009

    I hate it when I’m out with “guyfriend”, say at a party, and he gets so drunk that he doesn’t realize how loud he’s talking….So embarrassing. And dude loves to debate! Which makes him get soo animated but no one is listening ’cause he’s too damn LOUD! Bugs the shit outta me….

  9. Kahlil
    Sep 10 2009

    I hate it when a lady friend finds out my nationality (German,Creole, Brazilian) they request an authentic meal. That’s fine I’ll cook for you, its cheaper anyway but if you request authentic do not request red rooster, sugar or any other taste altering items. I hate that, next time I’ll make fried chicken, enchiladas or some other artery blocking meal.

    Peeve #2, dirty feet. Do NOT put your feet on my lap if you have been wearing sandals all day and your feet are black as hell. Hate it, may be number one.

  10. MsPhoenix
    Sep 10 2009

    LMAO! I have to agree with Kahlil’s #2!!! Definitely a deal breaker!

  11. Exequiel Garcia
    Sep 10 2009

    I hate it when a girl is too shy too say anything on a date. I went out with this girl twice that was extremely shy. The first time we went out the only things she would say were yeah, yes, and no. I thought she wasn’t feeling me so i didn’t ask her out again until she mentioned she woul like a second date. I thought by the second date she would be more into making conversation, but she was the exact same. If your gonna go out with someone the whole point of going out is too get to know the other person, not to be so shy that there are various awckward moments.

  12. B.A.W.B
    Sep 10 2009

    I hate it when I finally decide to go out with a guy I’ve been having cool conversation with and during dinner (or in the lobby while waiting for the table) he leans over and tells me how sexy I look and wonders what kind of panties I’m wearing or askes if we can go back to my place. Just because we have been talking for a minute and now we are going out doesn’t mean I’m just going to give it up like that. Its like get a clue…I agreed to go out with you because of the stimulating conversation not because you got a dic…um…the right equipment. Intellect and humor will have better chance of getting to know the type of panties I wear or what I like to eat for breakfast. ;)

  13. J Harris
    Sep 11 2009

    I gotta say it. Men, in a new relationship or pre-relationship, never under any circumstance, verbally ask for sex. If you make a women feel respected and sexy at the same time, it will happen.

  14. GFP
    Sep 11 2009

    @B.A.W.B- Ask me! Next time tell him none then periodically through the meal cross and un cross your legs and watch him squirm through the entire meal. Talk about global warming and politics. He will be confused as heck, then on the way home say a few provocative things then politely exit the car and shake his had. Careful girl, don’t squeeze too tight because he WILL be using that tonight! Once inside the house change the display on your cell phone from his name to “don’t answer”! I know what you mean about intellect and humor, but I’d like to add in a touch of street. There’s nothing like a nerdy thug tugging on them hips!

  15. DenisaD
    Sep 12 2009

    Regarding B.A.W.B comment. I think this could be one of the downfalls to internet dating (not saying this is how the 2 of you conversed) You meet a guy, have great conversations for awhile and you decide to meet. He feels he put in the time for some panty action via internet and phone conversation. That is not the case. At least not for me. The eyes are the looking glass to the soul. I can have a great conversation with you on the phone or via email but that doesn’t mean I know or trust you enough to give you the goodies. If we can all be honest for a minute, the internet is not always a place of “honesty” what takes place in print doesn’t pan out in reality. Men listen to J Harris. Let it flow naturally. It not about the trip it’s about the ride. You will never get to ride if she don’t let you in the car.

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