Dating #5+
On your first date play the game, “What was your childhood favorite”. Some questions should be: What was your favorite cartoon, sandwich, drink with sandwich.
On a future date 5+, ask her on a picnic. Pack the basket yourself. Pull out a laptop with her favorite cartoons downloaded on it. Pull out her favorite sandwich and drink.
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Pimpinism, everybody aint got it! Good thing you’re retired, all the fathers can unlock the chastity belts now! Seriously, cute idea but that would require premeditation! Which indicates its a game, not raw honest effort! Or is it? I’m good on being gamed up. Needless to say, that shit would probably get me though. Sitting on the picnic blanket UNCOMFORTABLE!
Game? No, it’s thoughtfulness. If I’m going to plan a date and spend time with you, I’m going to take what I think you’d like, something that no one has ever done for you in representation of what I want to mean to you.
The best part of picnics is that it breaks down physical barriers. It could be the first time you lay with that person, but in public in a non-threatening environment. You should lie on your belly to watch the laptop. And let her choose her most comfortable position. If you play your cards right, she will lie next to you, or if she stays upright you may get to lay your head in her lap. Oh, don’t forget the pillow.
LOL- GFP you are Hilarious!! PJH if i were a man, I think I would be just like you. (smile) I have played this game on occasion, with guys I’m getting better acquainted with, just to break the monotony (possibly due to his being a little nervous). My girlfriends sometimes tease me, but they’re married haters!! Just kiddin. I used to LOVE watching “Fat Albert” (Hey hey hey) Saturday mornings while my aunties were scrubbing floors, washing dishes and cleaning windows Ha ha! Other fav’s were: Pepe Lapheew, Felix The Cat, School House Rock and many more, but i can’t name them.
Toasted PBJ and Fried Beef Bologne sandwich w/ mayo & cheese with a cold bottle of Orange or Strawberry Crush YUM!! Anyway i just wanted to share. Just Reminiscing….
FLASHBACK: did anyone, other than myself, peel the edges off their Weber Bread, roll it into a dirty ball ? Anybody?….
PJH, Picnics are sooo thoughtful and Romantic the details in your following comment, are right on point! Lovely Suggestions.
Most people have a nostalgic memory of Saturday morning cartoons. If you can tap into those good feelings of someone you care for and associate yourself within those feelings, you are creating a powerful tool of bonding. By using the sense of sight, smell, taste and sound we access deeper emotions within others. This is one way to take dating and relationships to a higher level.
Again, very cute idea and the fact that the man would be playing the passive aggressive role by laying on his stomach or her lap only proves my point of an uncomfortable picnic (explosion of waterfalls only a man can ignite). I don’t know about any other woman but when a man is passive aggressive with his flirting (for lack of better words) that makes me even more tempted/interested! However, I stand by my point of the man being guilty of premeditated pantie dropping ideas. If on date 1 you ask questions for date 5…that’s beyond thoughtful, that’s a loaded weapon! Once you pull the trigger she won’t know what hit her until she’s taking that mug shot for indecent exposure! However, that is the premise of dating!Girl, he just swept me off my feets!
“We walked, we talked, he WASHED MY FEET”, “ooh girl I just love for a n**** to wash these feets”- Jason’s Lyric
And theeeeen…indecent exposure.
I’m just say JH, you appear to have an elevated game there…but if the word “game” offended you! I say you appear hella thoughtful there! That’s it champ!
This stuff is special and for a man to actually do all of this means that he is putting too much effort into trying to get laid, or he really is feeling a woman and it’s comming from the heart. If he remembers that much about you between the 1st and 5th date, then you just have to look into his eyes to see if it’s real.