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March 10, 2010

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Sending flowers – God loves you through me

Aqua Lilies

Aqua Lilies

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If you don’t know her favorite flower, you are doing something wrong.

Or, if you are doing something wrong, you better know her favorite flower.

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Actually my philosophy in sending flowers is that men should never send them when she is mad at you. When men do something wrong and send flowers, it seems to me to come off as weakness. So you ask her to forgive you because of the good feeling the flowers brought her.  I’d rather send flowers only when everything is great between us. That way, the good feeling the flowers bring will be added to the good feeling I bring.  This will encourage her to appreciate me even more.  Additionally, when things are going wrong and she gets no flowers, there is more reason to work hard and not give up on the relationship, because when it is good, it is great.

In fact, the very best time to send flowers is when she is going through a tough time outside of you two.  This will let her know that you empathize with her struggles and that you are there to support her when she really needs you the most.

Now if she is the type of person who is struggling at work and bringing that mess and dumping it on you, you can send her flowers with a note-

 “I am here for you, to weather the storms with you.  
Please let’s keep us strong and not turn on each other during outside crisis.   
God loves you through me”

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10 Comments Post a comment
  1. Elisa
    Jan 18 2010

    Very cute, but I hate flowers so tiffanys should suffice. For each one, teach one.

  2. Mrs. BOT
    Mar 10 2010

    A man who’s this attentive; only in my dreams. If my man were more like this, I would be willing to give him my all.

  3. B Harris
    Mar 10 2010

    NICE…..

  4. ELISA
    Mar 11 2010

    Lol@ Mrs bot… you don’t give your man your all now?

  5. Mrs. BOT
    Mar 12 2010

    LOL. Rationally. :)

  6. Everlasting
    Mar 13 2010

    Life is full of ups and downs, so when a man you love sends flowers out of the blue or during your outside stresses, it brings tears to my eyes. It feels so wonderful to know you have this incredible person in your life. Love does not fix all but it could sure makes life all the worthwhile. Stay Blessed

  7. J Harris
    Mar 15 2010

    God is love, just as our natural father, he wants to protect us and give us all that we need. He also wants that love in return. Unforced, but by unfettered will. He knows that we need the comfort of the touch. So just as he sent Eve to Adam, he sent me to you. To do the job that he wants me to do for you. Every time I love you, I fulfill my God given purpose for your life. But what if I slap the shit out of you? Did God send that? Probably not.

  8. SongbirdLA
    Mar 17 2010

    J Harris is hilarious! “Did God send (the slap)?” Too funny. Love the note!

  9. Everlasting
    Mar 20 2010

    Love is beautiful for those who have had good experiences. However it is true that those who live in abusive situations can confuse God’s intentions of the divine unity of a man and a women. Perahps their frame of mind is that their life is what it is or perhaps they are afraid and trust no one. I know people in these situations and they are aware that they are not healthy but in their hearts they truly no the wrong IS not of Gods doing. They need to find a way to believe, hope, and receive the strengh to escape that ugly world. Again, it is beautiful that some of us can thank God we don’t wake up every morn so afraid to live…

  10. ELISA
    Apr 7 2010

    @ Mrs. BOT, ration it honey ration it!

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