Comments on: A son’s emotional issues http://www.jermaineharris.com/2009/11/my-sons-emotional-issues/ Get smart or Die trying Thu, 12 Jan 2012 21:46:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: J Harris http://www.jermaineharris.com/2009/11/my-sons-emotional-issues/comment-page-1/#comment-1894 J Harris Tue, 24 Nov 2009 17:15:47 +0000 http://www.jermaineharris.com/?p=4647#comment-1894 We can turn our sons against themselves by allowing them to be exposed to the hate we feel for their other parent. Even if we fight an adult, we must find a way to express appreciation for the creation of a wonderful child. This is the feeling we must exude while in the presence of our child. He/She need not be encumbered by our ill feelings. They will not be able to separate that negativity from themselves. They are both their mother and father. This is a large source of discontent within a child that they may have to live with for the rest of their lives. Who are you to create baggage; it is your job to remove emotional obstacles. This is what a parent does. If you can’t live together for the sake of the child, find a way to respect each other for the sake of the child. Easier said than done, but most things of critical necessity are. It boils down to the character of the parents, and a big reason why people break up is because the difference in character, hence the difficulty in respecting each other. We can turn our sons against themselves by allowing them to be exposed to the hate we feel for their other parent. Even if we fight an adult, we must find a way to express appreciation for the creation of a wonderful child. This is the feeling we must exude while in the presence of our child. He/She need not be encumbered by our ill feelings. They will not be able to separate that negativity from themselves. They are both their mother and father.

This is a large source of discontent within a child that they may have to live with for the rest of their lives. Who are you to create baggage; it is your job to remove emotional obstacles. This is what a parent does. If you can’t live together for the sake of the child, find a way to respect each other for the sake of the child. Easier said than done, but most things of critical necessity are.

It boils down to the character of the parents, and a big reason why people break up is because the difference in character, hence the difficulty in respecting each other.

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