For Payback to the person to whom he has had that long time relationship let that Bitch have HIM, the life you have now will be hers
WiseCat
9 Comments
Post a comment
Get smart or Die trying
WiseCat
Traction Theme by The Theme Foundry
Copyright © 2012 Your Name Here. All rights reserved.
Why does she have to be a bitch? She may also be a victim in this as well. We don’t know what he’s telling her…
I apologize for the BITCH word, Im not that sensitive.
Whatever he is telling her it is a lie, She doesn’t understand me, Im staying for the Kids, Financially tied to her, if I leave I can’t afford the child support, she won’t suck my dick, she can’t cook, she has a medical condition, she is involved in her church, her special projects, she does not have time for me. We have an open relationship. Remember he is in the hood, and they are struggling, he is not the primary bread winner, I don’t think they have the essential 3 bank accounts (yours, mines, ours) she is taking from this Marriage, she is taking from this family and she knows it. Its been a long time, long enough for his wife to be AWARE of it, for them to fight about it, remember the wife is usually the last to know? therefore the other woman knew/knows. And during those fights what could he be telling his wife, Well she don’t mean nothing, your my wife, Its you I come home to, its about you and the kids and what we have together, I can’t help it its a man thing she through it at me. I fucked up you were ignoring me you make me feel Im not good enough for you and she makes me feel wanted. What.
Love yourself and your kids girl make your life and your world about reaching your goals creating a healthy environment for your kids. Men are not as scarce as you think, Remember they can’t help themselves its a struggle for them to stay faithful.
You said it perfectly Wise Cat. Thanks so much for your words of encouragement. And a “victim” PC? Puleeze???????? She knows. Ive talked to her and she tells me they are just friends, but I know the real deal.
They say the best revenge is living well and that is true. But I find rich rewards by living well and letting those who discounted and hurt me know that I have a full and happy life now. It’s soooooo sweet.
Well said WiseCat…on Target
Wise cat, I feel you on all the above but that was not initially stated in the article about if the “other woman” knew or not. I still don’t think that makes her a bitch, and there is always three sides to every story. We only have the story that makes Mrs. Shrinking in a box look like the perfect wife to a horrible womanizing man.
Shrinking in a box, now that you have identified the obvious pick up a mirror and say that shit to yourself “puleeze” because you are a joke. If you know all of this why in the earth are you writing into a blog site to get the advice of people who only know your side of the story then get upset when the other sides are explored. It sounds to me as if you just want a pat on the back for doing what you are supposed to do as a woman. If im doing my math correctly you are probably late 20’s so there is no excuse for you to not know the game. You say you know about her, YOUR BAD. If you know the “real deal” then do what you have to do and stop crying about what he isn’t doing. That is your fault not his. I cant stand women who victimize themselves, get on with your life and leave that loser where he lay if that’s what your are going to do or shut up and take what he is serving. You have choices and you know them, you also know the right verbiage to include in your little posting to make it look like you are heaven sent…I call BS…you aint all what you make yourself out to be dear! I’m done with this crap, back to self reflection!
PC:
Thank you for thinking I am the perfect wife, because I sure dont. I never stated that nor did I make myself out to be that. My original post was never about the other woman, it was about me asking if I am stuck with 3 kids? I am not crying about the other woman here. I simply responded to your post about her NOT being the victim.
If you are smart enough to know all the right answers, you should be smart enough to handle your infinite wisdom with humility and empathy. But sometimes thinking we know is not self-fulfilled.
For those of us who operate with a normal dose of emotions, we may understand that math can be irrelevant. Sometimes you find yourself not caring if 2+2 = 4. But for some of us who are blessed (cursed) with the inability to feel, it’s all a calculable game. All guts no guilt, no gratitude just glory.
Common sense to eradicate, eliminate or purge your identified problem is divergent to knowing the right answers. As well as ones inability to feel empathy for a delusive situation. The ability to detach does not indicate a lack of humility. How one handles their perceived knowledge or in this case opinion may be a case of situational tact but definitely not humility and empathy. Especially when one was we’ll aware of how the statement may be perceived. And I’m not sure what you are referring to with the calculable game because there was only a reference to age (math).
And I do believe there was a statement about a “long lasting relationship” which is in regards to this posting.
LOL…wow…very funny. Its like battle of the witts!