Can you relinquish your power and submit to a man? Part III

 

 

 

 

When reading concerns from my perspective please take into account my personality. I am by nature extremely nonchalant, liberal person. Thus things that bother me will not cause an immediate reaction but a build up over time. All except touching MY TOOTH PASTE! DON’T DO IT! I try to accept everyone for what they present.

 

1.                  A personal concern would be my significant other impeding on “my space” . Where will they put their things? Will I have to down size my personal items to accommodate their necessities?

2.                  Personal  (i.e. Toys, text messages, emails). Will he be uncomfortable with my collection of toys? Should I lock my phone or delete text as I read them? My emails, facebook or myspace account?

3.                  Freedom, Do I become unglued if he is out past midnight? Personally I wouldn’t care but should I stake my claim so he knows not to try no funny shit? Is it disrespectful?

4.                  Friends, When do we mix? Is our house a home or party spot? I have a daughter…it’s a HOME!

5.                  Finances, is he responsible? I’ve learned not to ask a man what is in his pocket, but also EXPECT for him to hold his side down. Or whatever arrangement we have.

6.                  Gender Roles, as liberal as I am, the one thing I am true to is gender roles. I believe men are bread to do certain things as well as women. I’m not a man and I WILL NOT act like it…but I WILL support you in your efforts. I don’t do trash and anything to do with the car (not even gas)…but cooking and cleaning go unsaid.

 

Miss Nonchalant