Here is my real dilemma; my sister and I are daddy’s little girls. My dad still spoils us to this day, and he also raised us to be very independent. The problem with this is that my sister and I are both struggling to find that happy medium in our relationships. We are either too self-sacrificing, or we are too set in our ways. To make matters worse, American women are not really known as the most submissive women in the world. This is why I would like a reader (a male in particular) to give me their opinion on what they believe a man with power in a relationship would resemble. In other words, I would like to hear from the horse’s mouth.

Thanks for your feedback in advance.

Question – What exactly do you mean by having “Power” in the relationship?
How do you suppose a woman allows a Stay at Home Dad to have the Power? This stay at home dad would not normally qualify for Head of Household, so does the “Power” go to the #1 breadwinner, or to the person who was born a man?